So confused.

I have no idea what to think right now. First David said that he wants me to leave him and was talking about the possibility of a divorce. Then all day today and yesterday he is loving, attentive and caring. I have no idea what to think. I do know that I am getting whiplash from his mood swings.

I had individual counseling last Wednesday and it was suggested that I treat David worse than how he had been treating me. All day Friday I was like David. Moody, non-communicative, and I moped around the house. I didn't speak unless he spoke to me and I never interacted with him unless he initiated it. Saturday he was more affectionate and started speaking to me.

Saturday a friend of mine told me he was in love with me and I showed the conversation to David. He got really quiet and wanted time alone. After about an hour he came up, gave me a hug and said he loved me. Then he got online and started looking at houses that he thought I would like. He was basically planning our future again.

When I told him I was confused that he was doing that, he shrugged. When I asked why he said that we need to plan where we were going to be when he got out of the Army.

I have NO IDEA what he is doing. I have no idea what he is thinking. I just wish he could be one way and make up his mind. I am tired of this tug of war game he is playing.