Just STOP already.

Recently my Aunt Davina deleted me from her friends list on Facebook. I asked her about it and this is our conversation:

• • Hey there, can I ask why you deleted me from FB?
• 

  August 25

  Davina Draizen

  • well i went on your facebook and seen that you had your pics hid..i do not want you to feel you have to hide stuff for my feelings..plus i feel that i am being drug unwillingly into drama over here. (not of your doing) i have toyed with the idea of deleting my facebook all together. i just want peace but it is kinda hard where i live if you get my drift always hearing about family drama and half are probably lies...feel its safer to keep my real realtionships off of face book> i lost your number so here is mine 859-xxx-xxxx my phone exploded....i love you
• 

  August 29

  Davina Draizen

  • Did you get message?
• 

  August 30

  Tracie Waldroup

  • Yeah, I got your message, just was not quite sure what to think about it. Also have been busy with school and such. My number is 931-494-0865.
• 

  August 30

  Davina Draizen

  • 
    

Not really much to think about it..it is what it is..
I got ur number recorded

Then today on Skype my sister contacted me, this is our conversation:

[5:50:54 PM] Leslie Bigelow: do you still talk with davina?

[5:51:12 PM] Tracie Waldroup: Not really. You?

[5:51:54 PM] Leslie Bigelow: long storie but since troy has come back she is like the old davina but worse

[5:52:20 PM] Leslie Bigelow: she is shuttin out everyone that doesnt kiss her ass

[5:52:40 PM] Tracie Waldroup: she deleted me from fb and not david. asked her why she said too much drama

[5:54:08 PM] Leslie Bigelow: no it was becouse you  never stop in to see her but you alway go and see evland. she said if you could stop in to see her friend and not her then you didnt need to be on her facebook and you didnt need to ever talk to her again.

[5:56:08 PM] Leslie Bigelow: she came over her and said we were going to stick togethere and be there for each othere and she would be back the next day to see us and never showed then deleted me and told cody sorry she couldnt have him on her facebook becouse of me.. have no clue why.. she is all about troy and acted like he is her dad

[5:56:31 PM] Leslie Bigelow: it is crazy

[5:57:26 PM] Tracie Waldroup: idk, she went to clarksville once and said she was going to stop by and see me but never did. Then she was going to go to Clarksville to see Eve while I was there but at the last minute changed her mind and after I left Clarksville went to see her.

[5:58:17 PM] Leslie Bigelow: ya since troy has been back she is all about him and never leaves his side

[5:58:58 PM] Leslie Bigelow: she acts like she doesnt even no use when she sees us and then tryes to be a drama queen and poor me with my kids

[5:59:15 PM] Tracie Waldroup: idk, i stay out of things

[5:59:40 PM] Leslie Bigelow: i have till no couse i dont understand any of it..

[5:59:54 PM] Leslie Bigelow: mom did the same thing with torie

[6:00:11 PM] Leslie Bigelow: just thought maybe you new

[6:00:32 PM] Tracie Waldroup: No, I don't know.

[6:00:47 PM] Leslie Bigelow: did i make you mad?

[6:01:00 PM] Tracie Waldroup: No, I am not mad. I just do not know anything,

[6:01:22 PM] Leslie Bigelow: ok. how are you doin?

[6:01:41 PM] Tracie Waldroup: I am doing OK. Skyping with David.

[6:01:50 PM] Leslie Bigelow: o ok

[6:01:54 PM] Leslie Bigelow:  by then

[6:02:04 PM] Tracie Waldroup: I will ttyl

[6:02:07 PM] Leslie Bigelow: k

The back story (at least on my side of things):




My Aunt Davina moved to Kentucky to be around my sister and I moved out there to be around family. My Aunt and I get along with each other when she is NOT with her (ex)husband. My sister and my Aunt get along about as well as oil and water. I moved out and eventually moved away to be with David (and away from my family) and Leslie and Davina kept fighting, and I was "friends" with both of them through facebook.




While David was gone in Basic, Davina introduced me to her friend Eve, who is an Army wife. Eve and I got along really well and became friends. Because she is in Campbell her and I hung out a lot and when I go to TN to visit with my family in law I visit with Eve. The Christmas before last Davina made a trip to TN to visit with people, called me up and said that she was going to stop by and visit me. She never showed up. Then last Christmas I was in TN and Davina said that she was going to go to TN to visit but when she realized I was there she decided not to. The day AFTER I left TN she decided that she was going there to visit.




Recently Leslie deleted me from her friends list on FB, I asked why, she said it was because I never talked to her. I pointed out to her that when I did make a comment she ignored me. Then Davina deleted me and that is the first conversation.




Furthermore, Davina and her (ex)husband are not good people together. They bring out everything that is bad in each other. Davina becomes all about money and what people can do for her because that is how her (ex)husband is. Troy is just not a nice person. So when he is around I do not like her. I have told her this and when she divorced him I told her that if she got back with him I would not go and visit her anymore but she was welcome to see me if he was not around. Recently she asked if I would go visit her and I told her no. I do not want to be around Troy or her (when she is around Troy) I then invited HER and my cousin Kaela to come visit me. She said no.




I am tired of the drama and wish that it would stop. I deliberately have NOTHING to do with these people because it is like this only worse on a daily basis. I cannot deal with the stress of them plus everything I have going on in my life. If they want to be toxic towards each other and if they want to treat each other as punching bags - both emotionally and physically - that is their business but please LEAVE ME OUT OF IT.